When the Bad is Good
Do you remember as a child when you wanted to do something, you had to get permission from your parents? Most of the times if they said no to something, you'll find find a way to convince them to say yes. Growing up as a child seem hard, until we become adults and realize we had it easy. Living under parents house rules to me was frustrating at times, because I wanted that freedom of doing what I want to do. That is why when I had the opportunity to go away for school, I did not hesitate at all. The ability to become independent and make choices of my own felt great!
The one thing I have noticed once we become free from our parent house rules, we eventually enter another form of rules. I call this next chapter of rules "relationship guide lines". I support all people happiness, but I noticed people do loose that freedom of doing the things they wanted to do in life, again. Some restrictions do occur due to their partners jealousy, different interest of fun, or a controlling factor may play a role. These factors can be changed over a period of time, but it is up to each person to figure things out.
Sooner or later you'll hit your boiling point and say "Fuck it" and start doing the things you want in life. Why does this happens? The reason is because we get tired of constantly hearing the word no or being rejected from the opportunities we want to accomplish. Although, we do not want upset anybody, but what about self happiness?
There is two sides of us. One side is always saying don't do it, while the other side is saying "Fuck it" and do it. This battle of going back and forth of making a decision is tough. What ever choice you choose will have a ripple effect. The one thing to remember is always do what you love. If it's not harming yourself or anybody else then take the leap and do it. The things you do in life becomes a story and you grow as an individual. Just remember, nobody remembers the things you don't do in life.
Cheers,
Lee IV
The one thing I have noticed once we become free from our parent house rules, we eventually enter another form of rules. I call this next chapter of rules "relationship guide lines". I support all people happiness, but I noticed people do loose that freedom of doing the things they wanted to do in life, again. Some restrictions do occur due to their partners jealousy, different interest of fun, or a controlling factor may play a role. These factors can be changed over a period of time, but it is up to each person to figure things out.
Sooner or later you'll hit your boiling point and say "Fuck it" and start doing the things you want in life. Why does this happens? The reason is because we get tired of constantly hearing the word no or being rejected from the opportunities we want to accomplish. Although, we do not want upset anybody, but what about self happiness?
There is two sides of us. One side is always saying don't do it, while the other side is saying "Fuck it" and do it. This battle of going back and forth of making a decision is tough. What ever choice you choose will have a ripple effect. The one thing to remember is always do what you love. If it's not harming yourself or anybody else then take the leap and do it. The things you do in life becomes a story and you grow as an individual. Just remember, nobody remembers the things you don't do in life.
Cheers,
Lee IV
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